You can’t be who the world wants you to be (you’ve tried).

In an increasingly artificial, black & white world, it’s easy to lose sight of this: life is a balancing act, with the noise and pressures of the world on one side and our values, identity, and purpose on the other.

I can help you find and maintain the balance you need to live a life that’s aligned, connected, and fulfilling.

Is This You?

My clients generally don’t fit into the boxes we use to categorize people, but if these sound like you, you’re in the right place.

You’re too adaptable for your own good.
While you can function in many environments and you’re good at a lot of different things, that comes with a significant cost: overthinking, resentment, and, worst of all, identity loss. Kind of like a chameleon that’s changed colors so often that it no longer knows its true color.

You’re perceptive, intuitive, and highly attuned to your environment.
You see patterns and notice subtleties in tone, energy, and dynamics that others miss entirely. It’s powerful … but it’s also exhausting and overwhelming. You’ve probably found yourself wondering if you’re “too sensitive" from time to time. (You’re not. What you are is a feeling person living in a world that continues to have a deeply unhealthy relationship with feelings).

You struggle with conflict and relationships.
It's not from a lack of effort – if anything, you try too hard and keep doing so long after the writing is on the wall. In your quest for connection and partnership, you give, accommodate, and adapt. All too often, though, you just end up feeling confused, hurt, drained, and unseen when the reciprocation you’re (reasonably) seeking shows up inconsistently at best.