Rewrite your story, change your life (Innova.buzz podcast)

I recently had the opportunity to be a guest on the Innova.buzz podcast with Jürgen Strauss. We talked about the relationship between failure and success, the importance of tuning into yourself, and about mind mapping as tool for creativity and clarity, among other things (like Jürgen's super-cool

The Productivity Death Spiral

The Productivity Death Spiral

“I’m exhausted, but I have to go in this weekend to catch up on my charts,” said my client, an ER doctor, sounding dismayed. “I’m not sure that’s a good idea,” I said in response. “But, how am I ever going to catch up if I don’

Why we don't let go ... even when we should

Why we don't let go ... even when we should

I was fortunate enough to spend a large portion of my childhood living in Santa Cruz (dude!) While I never learned to surf, I did have a skateboard. And a dog. She was a big Lab / German Shepherd / Husky mix that I’d oh-so-uncreatively named “Buppy” (the name my uncle

How do you eat an elephant?

How do you eat an elephant?

(Originally published 5/18/2016) I’d been working with a new client for a couple of months. One day she came in and said “I need to talk to you about something. It’s got me totally overwhelmed, and it’s very hard to talk about.” “Sure,” I said

3 Reasons being 'too nice' is bad for your relationship

3 Reasons being 'too nice' is bad for your relationship

First, a definition: If you consistently sacrifice your own needs and wants for those of others due to concerns about conflict or disapproval, you may qualify as 'too nice’. Sure, going along with what your partner wants is a way of being supportive and loving, and you should definitely